Wednesday, November 17, 2004

guide my sleigh

after brenda left this evening post-dinner, i was cleaning up and listening to the NOW that's what i call christmas music cd, and burl ives came on singing "rudolph, the red-nosed reindeer." what a pretty amazing reindeer. really, all his peers, all their parents, everyone humiliates him, outcasts him for his unusually bright nose and then in time of trouble ...

"santa came to say, 'rudolph with your nose so bright, won't you guide my sleigh tonight?
then all the reindeer loved him, as they shouted out with glee, 'rudolph the red-nosed reindeer, you'll go down in history!'"

i mean, the same people who shunned him are now singing his praises. and he's OKAY with that (i know, because i've seen the claymation story a hundred times, and rudolph is always really excited that these jerky reindeer are proud of him). really, c'mon. i definitely do not have rudolph's attitude. i'm glad we have a song about him. i'll sing it with more meaning next time ...

on another note, it's been fun to read my friends' blogs lately. both allan and paul wrote about dating recently, and it's hilarious to see the kind of reaction those topics get. people have all sorts of opinions (including yours truly) and it's neat to see the expression of those. cool, guys. good job.

and one more thing before erin and i hit the pavement for a little walk in this mid-november 60 degree warmth ... talking with brenda and erin tonight was wonderful. because i'm more convinced than ever that this community thing erin and i have been talking about is really gonna come to pass. instead of feeling like i have no clue why i'm here, it pushes me to believe that in the tiniest of ways, my time in chicago is gonna be of even a little significance. cool.

shoot, one more - and i promise this is the last - mark your calendars and save the date. the bosworth ladies will be hosting a holiday party on saturday, january 22. out of town? just give us a heads up, and we'll make you right at home for the weekend. can't wait.

7 Comments:

At 7:26 AM, Blogger erin said...

paulie. cubbieland is callin' you. since you are so desperately looking for a wife, let us know your criteria. i'm sure we could hook you up with someone. we'll do our best to make sure everyone knows what's going on too, ensuring it be as awkward as possible. (smiles all around.)

 
At 8:05 AM, Blogger Mary said...

e, there's certainly no way we're hooking up paul with anyone we know. with his attitude, he'll ruin my street cred (i don't have any yet and his unwillingness to participate in this tried-and-true set-up phenomenon will most definitely negate any possibility i have of becoming a matchmaking genius).

 
At 8:41 AM, Blogger erin said...

yet another lesson in learning not to speak for others. so let it be heard... i speak for myself, not mary.

 
At 4:14 PM, Blogger allan said...

Okay Mary Michelle,
Getting to the heart of it… enough of your witty banter on my Blog. I think it’s about time you spill your infinite words of wisdom on the world of dating. I can see you skillfully dancing around the topic…like a child around an ice cream truck. Stop dancing and share your Fuggy Cools™ of wisdom with us. I know you want to.
Let your avid readers taste the sweetness of your brilliance. Now is the time, the ice cream truck only passes once… Can you handle it?

 
At 5:58 PM, Blogger Mary said...

alright, i'll tell you what i think of dating. honestly, i don't care. people want to be set up; they don't want to be set up. they want the perfect person; they want perfect imperfections. they want a partnership; they want to be swept off their feet.

who knows? i believe in pluralistic dating. to each his own, you know. should it just happen? i wish. but we're so messed up here - especially in the city - having no clue how to balance the desire for power, success, happiness, love, you name it. i feel the only way anyone can fall in love in chicago is to fully stumble into it. does that seem totally off base?

p.s. paul, i'm glad things worked out for you as you hoped. stick to it.

 
At 6:44 PM, Blogger allan said...

totally off base mary. You're still dancing girl. Don't give me fancy semantics about "fully stumbling into it". Nah, i'm not letting you off that easy. Bring the real stuff girl. I know you have it. And not in a “comments” where only 3 of you blogging nerds go.., and me. Bring on the thundah!

 
At 11:09 AM, Blogger Ryan said...

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